Every now and then I find something written, usually online, that really moves me. I found this wonderful Jewish proverb that reads " A mother understands what a child does not say". I read that months ago and for some reason chose to write it down. I guess I knew that I wouldn't remember it since I'm not good at remembering quotes. I'll remember lines from movies that I've seen over and over again, but ask me to recall something important and I'll draw a blank more often than not. This is much more meaningful than any quote from a John Hughes movie of my past or a Kevin Smith movie representative of my present tastes. The quote struck a chord with me because my son isn't verbal enough to tell you things that you wish he could. For instance, I know, I mean I KNOW he loves me.. not only does he show it in abundance, but even if he didn't or wasn't able to, I'd know. The looks he gives me alone are enough to make me aware of that. Rather than saying "I love you mama" with his words he says it with his very expressive eyes and the bear hugs he gives with such force that sometimes you think he is a little bear.
That quote resonates with me because of what I know to be true about my son. I can't tell you how thankful I am for that gift. Words will come, I know that. In the meantime I know what he's feeling. That's enough for now.
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As the mother of a totally non verbal boy, I know what you mean. AJ tells me he loves me with every hug, smile, kiss, touch, and even every tantrum.
Welcome to Holland Renee....lol.
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nick never has to say my name,or tell me i love you, i see it in his eyes, his hugs, they say your eyes are the pathway to your soul,in nicks case you look in those eyes and you see his love.i enjoy the time we have together nana
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